Qatariana,sad to say your family is on the way to being broken..No,am not pessimistic...as you say u tried evrything and yet nothing change....do you know the biggest mistake you did so far my dear is leaving him alone there back home??? It did not work you being together with him and what will you expect\//things will change because you ar far from each other?? No my dear being far makes it even worst...
Why am i telling you all these??? because i've been there before, the reason why im working here for 6 years now is it did not work, i am the one who told him and begged him to stop going back abroad, we can help each other back home or the last moment he is complaining because he is tired and doing all, so i tried other way,told him we will leave the kids to my parents care and he will take me to saudi with him so that we could both work there and help each other and later we take our kids with us... he say this and that he has so many reason until i finally found out,he is living together with his whore/mistress with their child there...
mine is more complicated than yours... sad to say i am here trying to stay sane and strong for my kids, and he is there is saudi having 2 bastards already... why i knew all these,last december when i go home we have a closure, finally i learn the reason why...THE LOVE IS GONE...AND HE IS FULL OF GUILT for doing it and having an affair...but thats it....i did try my best...
YOU HAVE TO LET HIM TALK AND ASK WHAT IS THE REASON... somewhere, somehow there is a REASON WHY HE IS LIKE THAT...just brace yourself and be strong....