QATARIANA1 said Communication is the key....I have sent the message across a hundred times already....even pleading for attention...but to no avail... everything fell on deaf ears... But I left him that's why I came to know a place called Doha..but I had to reconsider my decision for the children."
Yes, you have to reconsider your decision for the sake of the children, at least until they are old enough to stand on their own 2 feet. Then you might separate again. If you're like me, where I will not file for separation or a divorce unless life threatening, then it will be an unofficial separation - later.
The fact that you have left him and come here will be the true test. If he loves you, he will miss you. Or at least, remember his commitment and his family. If not, then,I'm very sorry. He has to meet you halfway in order for things to work out.
Your other alternative - like a number of wives, is just to change your perspectives and expectations. Shift your goal posts, if you will. You can do it. We girls are tougher than the boys. Not physically but definitely emotionally tougher. All the best, Q1!
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
QATARIANA1 said Communication is the key....I have sent the message across a hundred times already....even pleading for attention...but to no avail... everything fell on deaf ears... But I left him that's why I came to know a place called Doha..but I had to reconsider my decision for the children."
Yes, you have to reconsider your decision for the sake of the children, at least until they are old enough to stand on their own 2 feet. Then you might separate again. If you're like me, where I will not file for separation or a divorce unless life threatening, then it will be an unofficial separation - later.
The fact that you have left him and come here will be the true test. If he loves you, he will miss you. Or at least, remember his commitment and his family. If not, then,I'm very sorry. He has to meet you halfway in order for things to work out.
Your other alternative - like a number of wives, is just to change your perspectives and expectations. Shift your goal posts, if you will. You can do it. We girls are tougher than the boys. Not physically but definitely emotionally tougher. All the best, Q1!
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama