Labda06 said QATARIANA1 you've been worrying for 10 years. That's 10 years of your life. Im of the belief that each of us knows what to do. Trust your instincts. If he hasnt shown you he loves you in 10 years, I dont think he's going to change now. You need to decide if thats good enough for you or not."

Yes and no. Yes, 10 years of wasting time, without her emotional needs being addressed.

No, because if he hasn't shown her that he loves her - it could be that she didn't communicate properly. To him, if he's working hard and providing for her and the kids, that shows his love to her and family. If she needs a verbal expression of it, say so. Might have to repeat a number of times if he's a granite head (or get DaRuDe to slap him.)

If he loves her, he will meet her halfway - maybe not immediately but eventually. Don't give up if the issue is very important to you, Q1. And there is always more than 1 way to skin a kitty cat. Good luck.

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