I'm a feminist because I don't sugar coat what I say?

My main issue with you is you consistently contradict yourself.

Is demanding equal opportunities going overboard? Is it unreasonable to demand the same pay and entitlements as a man in the same position?

The men I know still hold the door open for me. And if they dont Im not going to kick them in the ass for not doing so. That's socially speaking. This thread, may I remind you, is about the workplace.