No, men are not born stupid, no one is for that matter, often times women are the ones who're too obsessed to know how they're perceived by men, and will want to change to please.

Besides, I find women to be the worst enemies of their peers, in fact in most cases they're the ones who start gossiping, backbiting and maybe smearing other women's reputation, let alone all the conventional labeling i.e divorcee, old maid...etc

This is my perspective from one angle, there is more to this topic than that. Men are not that innocent and not off the hook of course.

Salam