Rajah, u may cry a river over the situation, but my dear, u've gotta be strong. This thing (sadly) happens whether he's assigned to work there or in ME.
U said u've talked 2 the girl and could'nt do anything... well u better do sumthing while u cry girl! crying isn't always a sign of defeat... Once he comes back home, show him how faithfull you've been opposed to what he has done, if this wont make him realize his mistake and rectified his misdoings, then by all means -dejar que se vaya, termine!
-easier said than done eh? yes it is but if worst comes to worst - why settle to an UNFAITHFULL husband when you deserve much better, i dont mean u get even with him by doing *** let him realize what a LOSER he is for messing up ur family...!!

"...Remember, the shadows are just as important as the light..."