these real life situations reminds me of the lines from the life story of ABBA's Agnetha Faltskog... in a song.... THE WINNER TAKES IT ALL....

I dont wanna talk about things weve gone through..
Though it's hurting me, now its history....
I played all my cards...
and that's what you've done to...
Nothing more to say...
No more ace to play...

The God's may throw the dice...
Their minds as cold as ice...
And someone way down here...
Losses someone there...