scarlett...

it comes down to the fact that you and others don't understand our way of life and don't agree with it...

the difference between me and you is that I understand your way of life but do not agree with it...

However, i let you live your life even though i don't agree with it and I keep my mouth shut not pretending that you may not compete with us...because I am realistic..

but basically..you listen to media...not happy with our culture...and build false statements based on a wrong understand and acceptance of other societies..ending up in lies field.