Bint I divorced here but was married in North America.

If the woman asks for a divorce she doesnt get her divorce payment as she initiated the divorce.

I had to ask the court for payment for my son. I asked for an amount, my ex husband agreed and that was it. I had a friend divorce a few years back also and she had to ask the court for payment. It may be worth your while to go back to court and ask for whatever money is pwed for the children to be retro-active.

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