sorry, if my guess is wrong.
I do believe you work as a middle / junior category, from the salary you mentioned.

Yes, it is true that , you may be bored without your family around you. But think about the situation, your famiy is around - and you borrowing money from your freinds / employers to support them.

Which is your priority ?... Let us be a little bored , but atleast the family stays in India happily. Your salry 4000 + accommodation + 50% of the expenses..... whihc is a good start to "SAVE" money...I repeat, SAVE... and send to your family.

Pls dont be so so so sentimental , about family is not around. I may give the same advice to my son, if he struggling with a salary, which cannot support his family.