ha ha absolutely and to have total rights over the remote control, oh bliss. Just think, we have no-one to answer to, we can do what we want when we want with whomever we want. And you are right, whenever i'm involved with anyone (which isn't often!!) it is a conmplete head f**k, so exhausting, plus I happen to be a dick magnet so single is probably safest for me (at least that's what my mum said!!)
It's good to talk to you, like minded people! :)