"A Qatari girl called and said, my parents do not allow me to go to movies with my friends and not to visit them so often. At the end she said, I really feel special when I meet my cousins in wedding and family gatherings. She feels protected and cared of. See!"
Why would u see it as she feels protected and cared of.. why dont u see it as that she doesnt see them as often as she likes so that when there is an occasion and she finally gets to see them she feels special!!!!!
In Qatar, you see the women working everywhere... whether it is in a co-ed office or in a girls school.. you see them driving their cars, meeting up with girlfriends whether for lunch or dinner or just to enjoy a shisha.. or what it a movie they felt like checking out on this day..
Can u do this in Saudi?! I, a foreigner, and I felt the strictness and the NO NO.. so how would a saudi feel?!
If i was going to school and my uncle is driving the car, i had to sit in the back as I am only allowed to sit infront if my Father is driving or my brother.. otherwise its a no no.. but then.. my Uncle was living with me in the same house! Uncle as in blood related.. the brother of my father.
to go out to the mall, just like the Saudi women, i had to have the Abaya on along with the Hijab.. and if not, the Male accompanying us is taken to jail.. liek seriously?!
during the day on the weekends my father would be working on a thursday.. guess what.. we are stuck hom.. why? bcz since my father is at work we are unable to go out due to the fact that my mum cannot drive and we need a male to walk around with us.. and we are FOREIGNERS..
I have been to the house of many many saudis.. I grew up with many... and i could see how much it bothered them to be restricted.. binded by only what the men allow them to do..
Please note.. that many women were lucky to have "open - minded" husbands.. that allowed them to have their friends over or to go visit and so on.. but still.. all their social lives are restricted to the four walls of their homes..
Have you thought about discussing this with a Qatari girl? ask her.. btw the life you have here and the one you could have a saudi woman.. what would you choose?
While you prefer to follow in the example of Saudi, I am sure they would tell you that Saudi should follow in Qatar's example..
"A Qatari girl called and said, my parents do not allow me to go to movies with my friends and not to visit them so often. At the end she said, I really feel special when I meet my cousins in wedding and family gatherings. She feels protected and cared of. See!"
Why would u see it as she feels protected and cared of.. why dont u see it as that she doesnt see them as often as she likes so that when there is an occasion and she finally gets to see them she feels special!!!!!
In Qatar, you see the women working everywhere... whether it is in a co-ed office or in a girls school.. you see them driving their cars, meeting up with girlfriends whether for lunch or dinner or just to enjoy a shisha.. or what it a movie they felt like checking out on this day..
Can u do this in Saudi?! I, a foreigner, and I felt the strictness and the NO NO.. so how would a saudi feel?!
If i was going to school and my uncle is driving the car, i had to sit in the back as I am only allowed to sit infront if my Father is driving or my brother.. otherwise its a no no.. but then.. my Uncle was living with me in the same house! Uncle as in blood related.. the brother of my father.
to go out to the mall, just like the Saudi women, i had to have the Abaya on along with the Hijab.. and if not, the Male accompanying us is taken to jail.. liek seriously?!
during the day on the weekends my father would be working on a thursday.. guess what.. we are stuck hom.. why? bcz since my father is at work we are unable to go out due to the fact that my mum cannot drive and we need a male to walk around with us.. and we are FOREIGNERS..
I have been to the house of many many saudis.. I grew up with many... and i could see how much it bothered them to be restricted.. binded by only what the men allow them to do..
Please note.. that many women were lucky to have "open - minded" husbands.. that allowed them to have their friends over or to go visit and so on.. but still.. all their social lives are restricted to the four walls of their homes..
Have you thought about discussing this with a Qatari girl? ask her.. btw the life you have here and the one you could have a saudi woman.. what would you choose?
While you prefer to follow in the example of Saudi, I am sure they would tell you that Saudi should follow in Qatar's example..
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