Things people say but don't mean ... hmmm.. generally, this does not apply to me. What you see is what you get, online and offline.

Having said that, I'm still also Asian, so I give "face" to people and try as far as possible not to embarrass them or hurt their feelings - in public. I will generally be silent but my silence is almost never acquiescence. But I don't mince my words or actions in private. If I say something, I definitely mean it. If I don't say something, don't assume.

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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama