thank you for your response. we are planning to sit & talk with her tomorrow. our plans are to let her go if she insists, she keep saying that she will miss me , miss the kid...we offered her more money, finding her another sponsor, going for a short vacation home...she refused all . hubby is planning to talk with her tomorrow, offer her a final offer ...she either take it or we gonna ask her to stay with us for like 2/3 weeks untill we get somebody else prepared and know exactly when the replacement would come. the main problem for us would be going again through the whole thing from the begaining, we hate agencies, we really liked her, my son as welll.... likes her.

by the way, there is no harrassment, nothing to do with us or our house...it is something related to her.

one last thing, if we ever thought it is slavery, we wouldn't be here looking for advise, as we would go different, we had plans based on her promises to us that she would do her contract (2 years), she still says that it has nothing to do with us....she refused even to try to find another employer.