Meaningful's advice is practically important - "get muslim friends online they can help you as here in QL people are nice there a good muslims here if you have any question PM us, im sure everyone of us will be happy to help you."
It's very important not to be misled by extremists. Ernie, may God bless you and keep you on the right path as you continue to seek and learn about the truth.

Timtan, in a sense, it was good that you posted what you did at first, because you prompted him to explain that while she was the motivation for him to learn more, he became a muslim after learning more. I believe his intention is true but I hope he continues on the right path.

And I agree with Jackie - "he was with his parent(s) and in his country all this (these) years, nothing made him get closer to christianity ok? so i think it is more than the girl thing". So, Timtan, you might want to direct your scathing criticism towards certain parties (eg. the general environment of USA) for abdication of responsibilities.

God speaks through everything that happens in life, if we listen. Sometimes, when we're not listening or are unaware, something momentous happens to make us take note. In his case, it was the love of his life. Everything is God's will and by God's grace, man has free will to choose.

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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama