"Marry in haste & desperation and live to regret it for the rest of your life and it might be a long life lived in misery. There are ways out but I'd rather preempt it. And I go to very great lengths for the few things that are very important to me. "
Again all pleasures and grievances cannot be generalised..
I have seen those who regretted their marriage at the beginning but found the same a valuable gift from God in later life.....
It all depends on how you tackle it..