First off to the author thank you very much some advice in there has been helpful as for the whole week i have been searching for a article such as this let me get you open...

My girlfriend of 8 months has just landed her dream job as Emirate airlines cabin crew and to be honest i think i've lost my ability to eat or sleep and my stomach churns when she tells me it could be 3 years as thats her contract time for this job..ok my situation i work for FedEx as a cargo security x-rayer jobs good pays crap (excuse my french) i dont receive much holiday so constantly heading to her soon to be apartment in dubai will be out of the question..myself re-locating is also the hardest for me i think than anyone as the only work experience i have is of airport security and x-raying so getting a job as that out there...well havent seen any.

We're seriously going to try and make this work as hey its her dream job and she got it! only drawback is yep probably wont be able to see her for 3 years or only a few days in that...