the basic problem lies in taking each other for granted...and then self-neglect.i've heard many of my friends telling me,"oh!now what's the need to buy pretty dresses or new lipsticks?i'm married now".....that is oh so wrong!i just cite one example to them....

why does a cow/bull go in search of fresh pasture?coz it is not getting the grass it needs from it's own farm/meadow.if you give it only hay,it will yearn for fresh grass and try to move away from where it is.on the contrary,if you take extra efforts to grow fresh grass in your little backyard with a little love and care and fertilizers,the cow/bull won't go anywhere.it'll stay back comfortably....coz it knows it's owner and has a comfortability level with him/her.

i guess it's easy enuf to correlate the situation of marriage with this example.

Keep smiling!

Saggi!