n2n I agree with you on the divorce issue. I think generally ppl confuse the initial physical attraction with the opposite sex as love. In so called love marriages many of the other key ingredients that make a successful marriage are overlooked which then cause problems once the physical attraction has come down a few levels. Modern celebraties are a good example of this; they are always falling in and out of love.

Love takes time to develop and requires compromises to be made. So if you are still holding hands at 60+ then you are probably in love. :-)