1)by all means do not hesitate, tell him what you want from that relationship. then remind him with his promises. ask what are his plans, where is the timetable for that? at 29 he should have that.

2) 'this man is different from other arabs' my friend told me the same story. he's single, 30 yrs old, not that rich compared to other qataris, she was even introduced to his brothers (no more parents), he refused to be married to his cousin, went to the Philippines twice, etc...
but after four yrs, he eventually married his cousin, then he wants to keep her since he dont expect to be happy and he 'truly' loves her. sweet no