if he cant marry you because of those issues, why continue? maybe your dreaming of a fairy tale ending just like my friend.

she had a 4-yr relationship with local man which she ended a month ago becase her man eventually married his first cousin. during those years he promised her that he will do everything to marry her even though its nearly impossible because she's an asian (my friend though is naive enough to accept all this without seeing any concrete proof for four years).