I am one to make lemonade out of lemons.  I'll make it great.  I'll find my interests there.  It's not the destination, it's the experience!  I've enjoyed your input.  I feel better discussing things.  It's so therapeutic, as long as everyone keeps things in perspective.  My husband will be there one week from today. I'm looking forward to a visit in mid April without the kids. (9, 6, & 4)  We'll all be there in June!  WOW!

 

You should hear the comments I get from my friends.  :p

 

Each to their own.