if you have to try that hard it is never going to work long term.....

i would give him distance.... if he comes after you then there is a chance but if he doesn't.....he is going his own way.

if u try too hard you matter as well tatoo 'doormat' on your head.

When you make a lovely gesture and you get a rude response.... dont try harder to please.... that is setting yourself up for emotional abuse.

you can't fake love!