What else do I have to do to keep the LOVE stayed forever
I am overwhelmed on feedback i received from QL users when i started to post on last week the same subject...Thank you guys for all the advise. Surely, it enlighten pain i have...
To continue my wordings, I was thinking to go out & have fun with my GF's to showed my hub that i am worthy & not deserve to be dumped or treat like a doormat...But, i realize things will possibly make it worse between us.
So what i do, i suprised him by getting a 2 tickets to watch movies together, bcoz of the rush & getting right timing based on his availibility, I pick movie which i didnt expect its not his type. Right on my face, what i got is 2 words. Timing is bad his fully occupied with some occasion. 2nd, movie I pick is worst! Men, I dont get it really!!! Does anyone do? can u share some hint so i can know how to get ur men into u???
you cant push/enforce him to love you.
keep your eyes and mind open,have pacion but at the end if it dont goes anymore,do the right step.For you.
Good luck and God bless you.
RH, it's okei to be upset...up until now i am with my ex....it still stings my heart everytime i remember what he did.
yes, you did it all for love but martyrs end up DEAD. well, you might not be physically but emotionally & mentally.
everybody deserves to be loved but you should be happy because you know how to love.
have u go sought professional advice, marriage counselor or church leaders? they might be able to enlighten u.
sorry Ridges Hotel, I forget that you two are married. My mistake.
In this case then, you should find other convinient time and suggest him your idea to spend the evening together, see his reaction. all men loved their food, cook his favo meal and sure he will give you one point+.
try to be busy with yourself and just give him sometime to sort his things out. Thats all man needs sometime just time alone.
Everybody is right Everybody is wrong, it depend where we stand.
Mila.....u cant say his not into me okay because were married & not just childhood sweetheart....
I do know that sometime, most men if something bothering them, relationship with their mates affected as well.... That is why some women, they are ready for that & even prepared some tactics how to make things works well.....
Orxy....I think i agree with your advise...I thought so, when a guy affected by something or carrying pressure in their mind, they want to be alone neither to appreciate their women's effort...All they know & more focus on...of how to solved their problem...Isnt???
Keziah17......I do everything for LOVE...& i deserved to be LOVE as weLL!!
Thanks you guys for comments......I feel less upset
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i tried to please my ex...i was there everytime he needs me, cater to his needs & everything...you may say i was slaved, no, i did it all for love. but if for the other person its just mere serving him & giving into his wants, then you better leave. if it's not worth now, it won't be worth it 5 or 10 years from now.
pain is part of our lives, we need it to learn and live..
if you have to try that hard it is never going to work long term.....
i would give him distance.... if he comes after you then there is a chance but if he doesn't.....he is going his own way.
if u try too hard you matter as well tatoo 'doormat' on your head.
When you make a lovely gesture and you get a rude response.... dont try harder to please.... that is setting yourself up for emotional abuse.
you can't fake love!
when he is not into you he is not into you. Periods. No matter what you tried to do he will not bugged.
Everybody is right Everybody is wrong, it depend where we stand.