i dont know about others but my sweetheart never wanted to come to Swiss permanently.

Only for holidays/family visitings and so on.

And Paula1,was not easy for me to understand the Arab mentality in general and i am still learning.All i can say you need a lot of pacion,a big heart,understanding and last but not least...tiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiimeeeeeeeeeeeeee.

Good luck and all the best to you .