I just don't know how to respond PM! May Allah have mercy upon you and me InshAllah alahumma ameen.
mm well maybe I should clarify myself a bit! As this is the correct manner of a muslim. And remember another manner is not letting people know your afflictions as this is between the person and Allah SWT.
Actually the reason for the purchase is to make life easier for my mother in law who has raised my husband to be the loving and caring person he is and deserves all our love and support! And if she happens to love a clean and brand new house then we will do everything in our power to provide it for her. Even if we must live simply as a result!
I just don't think it is wise to throw my money away as this would also prove to be unIslamic! As Allah does not like those who beg. And we should try to leave our children in a good financial condition when we pass away.
My mother is not a muslim. She's a workaholic who I saw very little of growing up and now. Bragging about what she does for a living would be pointless to me! While I am happy for her.. I don't always relish the fact that the children and I rarely see her! Or the disappointment that she has a daughter who has chosen a completely different path than her own.
My husband is a very knowledgable man. Who has done great things for the muslim community. The Prophet PBUH said the best of men are the best to their families. And my husband is the best of men. I don't deserve him and everyday I wonder when this treasure will be taken away from me. He works hard during the day, helps me out around the house, guards his chastity, plays and teaches his children, and gives me islamic lessons every evening. As well as participating in the community and being steadfast in his beliefs. And true to form he takes his responsibilities very seriously!
I'm sorry if all these things seem impossible to you PM. I'm grateful for my experiences and blessings. And even my afflictions are positive for me. MashAllah La Quwatta Illah billah.
I just don't know how to respond PM! May Allah have mercy upon you and me InshAllah alahumma ameen.
mm well maybe I should clarify myself a bit! As this is the correct manner of a muslim. And remember another manner is not letting people know your afflictions as this is between the person and Allah SWT.
Actually the reason for the purchase is to make life easier for my mother in law who has raised my husband to be the loving and caring person he is and deserves all our love and support! And if she happens to love a clean and brand new house then we will do everything in our power to provide it for her. Even if we must live simply as a result!
I just don't think it is wise to throw my money away as this would also prove to be unIslamic! As Allah does not like those who beg. And we should try to leave our children in a good financial condition when we pass away.
My mother is not a muslim. She's a workaholic who I saw very little of growing up and now. Bragging about what she does for a living would be pointless to me! While I am happy for her.. I don't always relish the fact that the children and I rarely see her! Or the disappointment that she has a daughter who has chosen a completely different path than her own.
My husband is a very knowledgable man. Who has done great things for the muslim community. The Prophet PBUH said the best of men are the best to their families. And my husband is the best of men. I don't deserve him and everyday I wonder when this treasure will be taken away from me. He works hard during the day, helps me out around the house, guards his chastity, plays and teaches his children, and gives me islamic lessons every evening. As well as participating in the community and being steadfast in his beliefs. And true to form he takes his responsibilities very seriously!
I'm sorry if all these things seem impossible to you PM. I'm grateful for my experiences and blessings. And even my afflictions are positive for me. MashAllah La Quwatta Illah billah.