I suggest you go there for you to know... coz you will never know unless you go there.

Go directly to POLO the Philippine Overseas Labor Office and seek for their advice. I've been there before and it seems they give good advices.

Good luck... tell your friend to pray that God will give her and her hubby the best decision... remember, going home is never a bad option but at the right time...

I have the telephone number of POLO but its better to go there than just seek an advice over the phone.