island with palm trees and animals. No worries, Catch fish and eat, Drink rain water

Thats why I didnt start a family and have no intentions.
Family = problems + worries =====> grey hair

No ambitions, live your life freely as the desire wont be able to dictate you.
Never make any earthly desire your ambition as your life would always be greared towards that desire. and you will never be able to get out of it.