i understand exactly your point.here in swiss is the same.if someone take a family member or relative here or help him to come here then the new arrival sees only the money,house,car and other material stuff and he will have exactly the same or more the same day.makes a lot of problems.sad but true.they must realize that it is a lot of work behind it.

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your
spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*