Unlike in US, you shouldn't disclose in public that you are a gay,, you might not experience a good reaction to it.
The sites you mentioned cannot be accessed unless approved by Qtel on your written request. Therefore, the monitoring shouldn't be there unless its from your work office. There should be several thousand clicks everyday trying to log in these sites. But P2P is used by many for this purpose as its not blocked.
The penalties would be only on any disrespectful action in public places or else caught for homosexuality anywhere.

all the best :)