the life is too short to spend several years for healing your heart pain. I have broken twice with guys, and one guy broke up with me. (I am not talking about 3-4 months of hooking up and hanging out together, I am talking about long-term deep relationship)...It was hard first few months.. But then you just realize that it meant to be this way, and there was no other solution for it... and you just thank God that you had it in your life: this absolutely amazing, great, deep, fantastic love. Because not everyone has given it! Not everyone experiences such deep feelings, not everyone gets this level of craziness, and dissolution in love. You feel that you are chosen one, and you are just happy… We are still very good friends. He appreciated what I have gone through and the way I was acting.
By the way it is very important to stay a Human even when you are hurt soooo deep!