thanks sunset. ofcourse i know i have to follow the rules but im just asking for any advice. perhaps there are people out there who had a similar experience and who cud share some advice regarding this matter. my mom wud like to see where i am staying now and she's always asking me when can she visit me..and as a daughter, ofcourse i'll do my very best not to disappoint her..anyhow, tnx 4 d answer