hello,from experience no.1 run away i had one but she did not have chance to run because i made her go home,fake age,no experience at all,had no common sense with any probable danger for kids,much of all and sorry to say this had to beg her to shower and even if she did she will wear the same dress she had on before taking the shower even i bought her many dresses and even though she was in that dress for one week,you need to teach a lot if you have time .good luck