It is really so sad to see this happen, but these kind of marriages were from the beginning [as you guys mentioned earlier] for the wrong reasons. How can the poor woman know that this bad guy was cheating her, telling lies and building castles in the sky? I don't know if these guys look so sincere and got the ability to convince people that much, so they would be falling in their traps like that.

These guys can handle their responsibilities [if they are responsible somehow for anything] to a specific level. After that they can't handle it anymore, so they simply leave their wife and maybe family too without asking or ever go back. I prefer not to get into any relation with any one while I know that I can't handle it, better than sink later and drown everyone around me.

These guys are doing nothing but enjoying their lives and make other peoples life miserable. He is enjoying his life with his wife and for so many reasons lefts her behind and run a away. What kind of run was that and for what reason? Was it a run from the house? from the wife? from the kids? from responsibility? from the society or from being bored and tied up? Everyone got his reasons, but no matter what are those reasons and whether they were right or wrong.

This is not the right way to solve your problems mature man ... you are not a kid anymore who got a good punishment in school, run away back to home because you did not like it. It is not a cup of juice that you can ask the juice stall guy to replace it for you because there are too much ice or less sugar. We are talking about a family here .. it is the future and life of these people that you will change forever regardless of changing it to good or mostly bad. How can you bring their lives and dreams down to earth and crash it on the reality rock like that? You are supposed to be their protector , their dreams builder, be the husband and father .. how dare you let them down like that?

Don't think that anyone would forgive you for that or look for good reasons to justified what have you done. You might be confused or afraid back then, but did not you think for a while of these people who love you and thought only of yourself? Don't be that selfish man please .. I'm begging you to think twice, no millions of times before you do such a thing.

Best Regards

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