Husbands leaving wifes behind

Lots of bad women everywhere desperate to grab man, doesn't really matter to them although man are married they want to secure themselves.

Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig 2 graves...

i neither have a girlfriend nor a wife :D and thats rly, rly sad :( HAHAHAHAHAHA

Many people need to relearn how to love, in order to love

more maturely. Your capacity to love others is closely related

to your capacity to love yourself. And learning to love yourself is not selfish and conceited. In fact, it is the most mentally healthy thing you can do. There are a number of specific steps you can take to increase your self-love...

Love is the geatest gift you can receive. But you have to give it to yourself..

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have you ever heard of a jerk magnet that was attracted to a balding, overweight Canadian who smokes 5 packs of non-filtered cigarettes and drinks a fifth of rum a night?

Just wondering....

I just don't give my heart straight away. If he/she is physically attracted to me and vice versa then I would date him/her "test drive" if we click then we go on and then I will hope it would be something serious but I would not expect... just wait and be patient. If I feel I need to end it then I would and if he/she feels to end it then "kalas", "thank your for the time and for the chance of having a good time with you"

I know you would think it easy to just say it and I agree with you but at the end of the day think.... "no one forces you to give yourself up if you also don't want to". Someone might fooled you but still its ur decision to give it up.

Cheers!

"I know how and when to say "Please", "Sorry", & "Thank You"

Magandang Umaga, .. kumusta ka po ate. How are you doing today? What are your plans for the weekend? Nothing here .. just waiting for tomorrow :)

I'm not on the look out for MEN or parking spaces...neither are my friends...in and outside QL...hehehe

is good, but does not mean always that this guy is ok. First impression also does not mean that this guy is bad. Some people say, I don't need to eat the whole egg to know that it is corrupted. It can be true but also .. if you try something at a place and did not like it, try it into another place and you will like it. What I meant is .. it is up to your good or bad judgment of the people that you met. It might work fine and you consider a really good person as good. It might also fail you and consider a good person as bad or a bad person as a good one.

I will too. Once I can eat solid foods again I will start gaining lots of weight! And smoking and farting all the time.

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i'm just out of college so don't have many friends who are married.. but i have many friends who hav galfriends and they lie to other gals that they don't have any...

their intention is just one and only one... lie to get them laid

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Maybe if u were less attractive, all the jerks wouldn't be trying to get into ur pants. Hmmm...let's see...how about u gain 100 pounds, shave ur head and get like 25 tattoos all over ? :D lol, oh and don't shower for months! That should do the trick!

I try Cornellian, I try.

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Hmmm...on second thought, I think ur right, I mean first impressions do count in my books but ofcourse we shouldn't be falling head over heels just become he was charming the first time. Patience is the key, and ur right about being her friend first, he has to gain her trust, and it will take time.

Seems like u've met nearly all the jerks in Qatar :(

Try to stop being a jerk magnet! I would hate to see u get screwed over many times.

I don't trust first impressions anymore at all personally. I've met to many really nice guys, who made great first impressions and 3 dates later you find out they have a girlfriend or a wife back home.

I think the really nice guys need to prepare themselves for the long haul, not only making a good first impression, but taking it really slow, and being her friend first.

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Men hope u don't get offended but i've heard this a few times : Men are like toilets, they're either occupied or full of shit hehe.

But it's true, life for decent single guys is tough cause girls have become so cautious that they'll barely talk to any guy, I guess a guy has to make a really good first impression to even get the slightest chance here. But saying that, I know people who met eachother here and have strong solid relationships so...single guys don't give up! hehe

"or from being bored and tied up? "

The mind boggles! :D

I don't go to mythical places with strange men.

-- Douglas Adams, The Long Dark Tea-Time of the Soul.

It is really so sad to see this happen, but these kind of marriages were from the beginning [as you guys mentioned earlier] for the wrong reasons. How can the poor woman know that this bad guy was cheating her, telling lies and building castles in the sky? I don't know if these guys look so sincere and got the ability to convince people that much, so they would be falling in their traps like that.

These guys can handle their responsibilities [if they are responsible somehow for anything] to a specific level. After that they can't handle it anymore, so they simply leave their wife and maybe family too without asking or ever go back. I prefer not to get into any relation with any one while I know that I can't handle it, better than sink later and drown everyone around me.

These guys are doing nothing but enjoying their lives and make other peoples life miserable. He is enjoying his life with his wife and for so many reasons lefts her behind and run a away. What kind of run was that and for what reason? Was it a run from the house? from the wife? from the kids? from responsibility? from the society or from being bored and tied up? Everyone got his reasons, but no matter what are those reasons and whether they were right or wrong.

This is not the right way to solve your problems mature man ... you are not a kid anymore who got a good punishment in school, run away back to home because you did not like it. It is not a cup of juice that you can ask the juice stall guy to replace it for you because there are too much ice or less sugar. We are talking about a family here .. it is the future and life of these people that you will change forever regardless of changing it to good or mostly bad. How can you bring their lives and dreams down to earth and crash it on the reality rock like that? You are supposed to be their protector , their dreams builder, be the husband and father .. how dare you let them down like that?

Don't think that anyone would forgive you for that or look for good reasons to justified what have you done. You might be confused or afraid back then, but did not you think for a while of these people who love you and thought only of yourself? Don't be that selfish man please .. I'm begging you to think twice, no millions of times before you do such a thing.

Best Regards

It happens to all married (not only Qatari) men especially when they travel a lot or when their marriage is in trouble. Married men lies to get “laid” but I think it’s not really a reason if they leave their family behind or “wives” behind.

Individually, we have needs, biological, psychological, emotional, etc. that not only one person can fulfill. Wives feel the same thing, sometimes they cannot get what exactly they wanted from their husbands but the good thing is they will think about it 1000 times before doing it because they/we know that the society will cast them more than their husbands when it comes to “cheating & adultery.” Society tends to tolerate the fact that men are very vulnerable to loneliness but afraid of the responsibility of commitment.

I am not saying that I agree to those married men who lies just get “laid” and probably to fulfill their fantasies that they might not get from their wives if they ask for it. They lied because, at that moment of lying, they just being themselves, wanting something and needing something. They lied to protect themselves from shame that they exactly knew it’s not right because they are “married”. They lied to protect their family. They lied to protect the feelings of the other women, and can’t really tell that “I’m sorry I am married, but I just need you for this moment” and offended her feelings and actually shattered her whole life.

I do believe that married men leave their wives (bf leaves their gf) it’s simply because they cannot sacrifice anymore their happiness and they cannot lie anymore that they fall in love with someone else or smitten by someone else or they just are simply wanted their space as individual. Women are the same, we are just stronger than men that we could sacrifice our happiness because we knew it is the right thing to do.

“Marriage can be exhausting to both husbands and wives”

Women can be the same. Women have urges too. Is just that women could take responsibility & commitment for as long as they could!

When it happens to me, yes it would break me but its love that I could not break him by just being selfish of not letting him go.

If I ask him why he did it and replied to me “It’s just for sex!” and then I would ask him “May I do it too?” ;-)

This is just a personal opinion…..

Cheers!

"I know how and when to say "Please", "Sorry", & "Thank You"

so whome i will wait to take me azilana7037 ..hahaha

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ROFL. Very true. I feel sorry for the guys in Doha who are good guys and single. By the time you meet a nice single girl chances are shes been screwed over by too many losers here. The decent ones really do have their work cut out for them. :(

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That "MEN are like parking spaces...the GOOD ones are always taken" or to that effect...

When I worked in the UK the staff had a saying "When you go away it stays away" ie never grass your mates up for their flings. I was appalled by this. Surely if a man/woman is fed up in the marriage and looking for relations outside of it, then it's time to finish.

And I would see them in bars chatting up members of the opposite sex, telling them they are single and getting what they want. A few also got more than they wanted and a few trip to the clinic !

One guy passed away and at his funeral we discovered he had a family in the UK and another in Ireland. What a mess !

I am a decent guy and I love my wife. I'll never cheat on her as I'm not weak.

absolutely true gypsy...he was actually a smart and decent guy, i guess thats why he was already taken..well not so decent or else he wouldnt have done that after a few months of being married his wife is arriving in 2 weeks and he couldnt even wait ;-P no, worries, i told him to just call me when his wife finally gets here so i could show her around! hahahahaha! :-P

-CERTAMVS!-

Always remember, if they look like they are a decent guy they either have girlfriends or are married. You can't trust the guys here as far as you can throw them.

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Yes! What an BIG ASS!!! How can he go home to his wife. Sadly man lie jest to get women to have sex. Hopely gloing with a disease Lol!!!ha ha ha

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it didnt do anything to me, just lowered my opinion of men even more..i pity the wives of men who are like this...

-CERTAMVS!-

no worries there is always next time :D

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they dont need to leave their wives behind or be far from them to live a single life..

i just met a man last thursday, went out with him saturday, found out he was married on monday, and that was after we had sex! and what did he tell me when i asked him why he never told me he was married??? "well, u never asked me" what an ass!!!

-CERTAMVS!-

Who Knows I'm Married Or Not (I'm Not Married ha ha ha)

kidding ya - got a nice subject in weekend. lol

hey who told that i'm married ha ha ha - funny topic for weekend.

I DON'T LIE !!

Lol! So Sorry you need a blue pill to found yourself alive and feeling good in Qater..

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Good thing that the Qataries are learning from us

- I took the blue pill and found myself alive in Qatar - wish I had taken the red and stayed in Europe

Yeah i agree that all guys do that not just Qataris. But Hey... I'm Not married!! HAHAHA

Don't we all do that??

Not just the Qatari's

Now need to see the sparks fly.

good topic for the weekend.