I don't know why do people continue wasting their and others lives like that. If you feel that it does not work out for you and your wife and that the best solution is the divorce, then why not go for it. I know that the word 'Divorce' by itself is scary, complicated and not that simple. I'm not encouraging such a thing, but if part of the body sometimes is threatening the whole body they got that part to save your life.
What prevents sometimes these things and lead to more trouble is the look of the society to the divorced man as well as the divorced woman. They don't want to believe that such a solution was necessary and would keep assuming that something were terribly wrong. I'm talking about one of millions of other ideas and opinions that the society have for these divorced people.
Because of that the woman would prefer to spent [waste] her life with a cruel, greedy and selfish man to avoid that end. Because the society does not have mercy for these women. It was your fault, you choosed him from the beginning, you will be like that forever, no one will marry you again, you are not allowed to go out what would the people say about us? You have kids to take care of, I don't know how can you be happy with all of this?
On the other hand the man take it as a personal issue. She hurts and I would never give her what she wants, what is wrong with me? Why is she asking for the divorce? After all the money that I was paying for her and paid to marry her, that is the end of it? She will run away and left me with nothing? Who will take care of the kids, me or her? What would my family say? You coward can't manage to get this marriage work, she were laughing at you from the beginning and that is the end of it.
It is not enough that they come to end up taking that hard decision with all the sequences that they have to face later [good, bad], but they don't want even to give them the chance to try again.
Everyone got the right to get divorced, but only for the right reason. Or it would be a disaster.
I don't know why do people continue wasting their and others lives like that. If you feel that it does not work out for you and your wife and that the best solution is the divorce, then why not go for it. I know that the word 'Divorce' by itself is scary, complicated and not that simple. I'm not encouraging such a thing, but if part of the body sometimes is threatening the whole body they got that part to save your life.
What prevents sometimes these things and lead to more trouble is the look of the society to the divorced man as well as the divorced woman. They don't want to believe that such a solution was necessary and would keep assuming that something were terribly wrong. I'm talking about one of millions of other ideas and opinions that the society have for these divorced people.
Because of that the woman would prefer to spent [waste] her life with a cruel, greedy and selfish man to avoid that end. Because the society does not have mercy for these women. It was your fault, you choosed him from the beginning, you will be like that forever, no one will marry you again, you are not allowed to go out what would the people say about us? You have kids to take care of, I don't know how can you be happy with all of this?
On the other hand the man take it as a personal issue. She hurts and I would never give her what she wants, what is wrong with me? Why is she asking for the divorce? After all the money that I was paying for her and paid to marry her, that is the end of it? She will run away and left me with nothing? Who will take care of the kids, me or her? What would my family say? You coward can't manage to get this marriage work, she were laughing at you from the beginning and that is the end of it.
It is not enough that they come to end up taking that hard decision with all the sequences that they have to face later [good, bad], but they don't want even to give them the chance to try again.
Everyone got the right to get divorced, but only for the right reason. Or it would be a disaster.