Right of women to divorce
Hello All,
Please help me out. i am working n doha for last 8 months on a respectable position. i am a Pakistani Muslim married woman. These days i AM in Paksitan due to some personal reasons. I have resident visa for Qatar and my company sponsored me. I ahve no kid.
The problem is that i want break my marriage (there are list of issues) but as i dont have time to process the legalities from Pakistan. Is there any way that i can process my Khula or divorce from Doha and sent the copy of the decision to my husband in Pakistan. As he is greedy fellow he will do it in a straight manner, he is giving me and my family in Pakistan constant threats. As he belongs to a powerful family he is using all the wrong ways to keep me away from taking this decision.
I want a smooth legal proceeding and one sided decision from the court. I am coming back to Doha next week.
Can anyone help?
Thanks
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I don't know why do people continue wasting their and others lives like that. If you feel that it does not work out for you and your wife and that the best solution is the divorce, then why not go for it. I know that the word 'Divorce' by itself is scary, complicated and not that simple. I'm not encouraging such a thing, but if part of the body sometimes is threatening the whole body they got that part to save your life.
What prevents sometimes these things and lead to more trouble is the look of the society to the divorced man as well as the divorced woman. They don't want to believe that such a solution was necessary and would keep assuming that something were terribly wrong. I'm talking about one of millions of other ideas and opinions that the society have for these divorced people.
Because of that the woman would prefer to spent [waste] her life with a cruel, greedy and selfish man to avoid that end. Because the society does not have mercy for these women. It was your fault, you choosed him from the beginning, you will be like that forever, no one will marry you again, you are not allowed to go out what would the people say about us? You have kids to take care of, I don't know how can you be happy with all of this?
On the other hand the man take it as a personal issue. She hurts and I would never give her what she wants, what is wrong with me? Why is she asking for the divorce? After all the money that I was paying for her and paid to marry her, that is the end of it? She will run away and left me with nothing? Who will take care of the kids, me or her? What would my family say? You coward can't manage to get this marriage work, she were laughing at you from the beginning and that is the end of it.
It is not enough that they come to end up taking that hard decision with all the sequences that they have to face later [good, bad], but they don't want even to give them the chance to try again.
Everyone got the right to get divorced, but only for the right reason. Or it would be a disaster.
Find a lawyer in Qatar and explain your situation. Try to have as much evidence as you can if you want a sympathetic court.
Try the Shariah courts here. Best of luck
uh oh.......i am really sorry for your pain.........you can appraoch your embassy regarding this matter, they will have more information about these things.
there is a ministerial organisation here that handles divorces, i forget the name, but i am not sure if they process expat divorces too.
another solution for you would be to contact a local lawyer here and ask him/her about procedding with this matter. they should be able to help you too since they know who such things are handled.
i wish i could help you more.
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