It isn't about the money.... sure
But we say 'put your money where your mouth is' or 'actions speak louder than words'
What has he got to lose with you paying and arranging everything?
Please don't let the other posters give you too much false hope...
If he really had wanted to see you then he would have sorted out the ticket with honour, love and pride.
What you must do for sure is come out. You can pm me too.
Don't sit at home feeling all emotionally incontinent. We all get wobbly moments and don't feel alone during yours. It think maybe you should have spent the ticket money on you: new foxy shoes with matching lingerie etc... you are more worthy of your own money than him.