Who is paying for the ticket you or him?
the answer will define where you stand with him.
Did he ask you to come over? or did you just book the ticket?
If he isn't paying any money towards... read the writing on the wall... loud and clear - he just isn't that interested.
Silence means he has other things to do that are more important to him than you.
I think you already have 'a feel' of what things are like.
If he isn't delighted to see you and makes lots of poor excuses then it is time to move on to someone who will treat you right - but don't waste your time, money, emotion and energy on someone who isn't treating you right. You will feel rotten about yourself in the short-run and silly in the long run.
Who is paying for the ticket you or him?
the answer will define where you stand with him.
Did he ask you to come over? or did you just book the ticket?
If he isn't paying any money towards... read the writing on the wall... loud and clear - he just isn't that interested.
Silence means he has other things to do that are more important to him than you.
I think you already have 'a feel' of what things are like.
If he isn't delighted to see you and makes lots of poor excuses then it is time to move on to someone who will treat you right - but don't waste your time, money, emotion and energy on someone who isn't treating you right. You will feel rotten about yourself in the short-run and silly in the long run.