First of all I'm neither getting sentimental nor emotional.

What my true self only Allah knows. I believe everybody has a threshold for his/her patience. I remember one of best friend used to say "if u dare to finger someone, be patient to take hand in return".

Just read your post Han, and recall how many times you and ray told me not to act like dad, we're grownup. At the end, I ended up with giving up.

The only thing that really hurts me is I don't want my name to be associated with any other lady on/off the forum except my wife and because of that I shouted but no! people say you must have fun with this, now when I do the such thing in response, people cry, and post such a hard comments for me that again i accept with patience.

I know myself that I'm very calm person. I learn about myself from my friends and family because they are my mirror. I try to keep balance in my fun and religion. Yeah of course I can't go beyond the limits.

What I want to say is fun should have been in limits and remember fun is not the only thing in this life, we're accountable for our acts too to our Allah. When we will realize this thing, we won't hate people but their acts (if they are bad).

I would just end up my comments that just go through your comments you posted before and count how many times you ppl personally hit me and how many times i've hit you personally and how many times i reacted against such comments. You'll find a good judge of yourself.

Have a nice weekend!

"Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired"
Robert Frost