what you do when someone whom you used to love owes you money?

wissamj
By wissamj

Hello,

If you lend someone you love money for a long time, and later you stopped talking to each other. Then after sometime you needed money for some family issues, is it abnoxious/rude to ask for your money from this person, and if this person ignores your requesti, what will you say and do about it?

Thanks,

By stallionjr• 22 Mar 2011 18:51
stallionjr

Its ur money ... asking for it is never rude ... just tell the person u need it and follow up. If the request is ignored become a pain in the wrong place and keep following up till u get it.

By wissamj• 22 Mar 2011 17:18
wissamj

Guys & Girlz thank you for your feedback and answers...Will follow your advice as the majority of you supported the fact that i should ask for my money back.

Thank you

By wissamj• 22 Mar 2011 17:18
wissamj

Guys & Girlz thank you for your feedback and answers...Will follow your advice as the majority of you supported the fact that i should ask for my money back.

Thank you

By benjiez• 22 Mar 2011 13:21
Rating: 5/5
benjiez

I will collect my money if I were in your shoes. After all, its your hard earned money.

Love and money...complicated.

By Abid milanista• 22 Mar 2011 12:46
Rating: 4/5
Abid milanista

I WILL LEAVE HER FOREVER BECAUSE SHE LOVES MY MONY NOT ME.

WHEN YOU BECAME IN TROUBLE .

YOU WILL WATCH ARROUND YOUR SEFL AND YOU WILL NOT FIND HER.

LEAVE HER AND LIVE YOUR LIFE .

JUST CHILL.

MAYBE SHE IS NOT YOUR DREAM GIRL.

By anonymous• 22 Mar 2011 12:11
anonymous

Hai Tinku :)

By anonymous• 22 Mar 2011 12:11
anonymous

Hai Tinku :)

By SallyDeepu• 22 Mar 2011 10:55
Rating: 4/5
SallyDeepu

If you love that someone and the feeling is mutual then what's the problem in mentioning it over a call. A loved one will always understand your need. Its not a matter of your money or his/her money. Its a need and a loved one will not think its obnoxious.

By nabilo• 22 Mar 2011 10:52
nabilo

Actually I wanted to answer but people who answerd

before me I found that they are very wise people take their advices they are wiser all of them

By kors• 22 Mar 2011 10:50
kors

if ur talking of big amount u should ask her in a nice way to give u back ur money :)

all the best...

By cherukkan• 22 Mar 2011 10:32
Rating: 5/5
cherukkan

It is your money and you have the right to ask for it. You should not be shy and as mentioned by Tb get the help of some common friends to act in between.

By jasonbquizon• 22 Mar 2011 10:28
Rating: 3/5
jasonbquizon

It depends how much. If you can let it go why bother with all the troubles? if its quite a large amount then ask your EX. Its your money, and if there is someone who should be be feeling awkward it should not be you.

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