In -laws
Salam,
Can any one give their opinion...people say that always girls parents should keep patience n keep quite n list to boys parents means they should bow down to what ever they say...? Is it true...
In islam is it anywhere mentioned that boys in laws should always bow down coz they are Girls parents...
Can any one send me any Islamic lecture video on that or Hadith which says its wrong to treat your would be wife's parents so low..to make them do whatever they say..since they not yet ,married also..
Please reply..
Jazak Allah khair...
it has nothing to do with islam
its culture and lame customs but problem is
in most asian countries specially india and pakistan this is normal but yes not all over pakistan neither all over india. certain areas and communities have developed this culture and certain communities havent evolved and still following this outdated shitty customs
but IF YOU ARE STRONG ENOUGH YOU CAN INTIATE THE CHANGE IN YOUR FAMILY FOLLOWING THE RIGHT WAY AS I DID IN MY CASE.
IF YOU WILL LISTEN AND FOLLOW WHATEVER YOUR FAMILY USED TO FOLLOW THEN THIS WILL CONTINUE OVER GENERATIONS TO COME