how much is too much?

mrvm
By mrvm

I read everywhere that public displays of affection are a big NO NO.

The extreme examples I understand, but what's ok... holding hands, a quick peck on the cheeks, cuddling, putting your arm around someone (ie. your spouse?)...

By nomerci• 27 Nov 2010 20:24
nomerci

Even men do it!

By t_coffee_or_me• 26 Nov 2010 17:10
t_coffee_or_me

Holding hand is OK. Even Local couples do it

By anonymous• 26 Nov 2010 17:04
anonymous

Colt is right,the airport departure/arrival lounges are probably the most liberal public spaces in this country!!!...yeah,hugging & even a quick kiss is ok there...

By soniya• 25 Nov 2010 11:12
soniya

Yeah colt, i can understand this.

It's just that i never tried doing all these at airport..Didn't even do when i saw my hubby after 1yr..:)

May be i am a SHY PERSON to reveal any sort of affection in public..

It's ok mate, i have seen many couples showing their affection this way..Chillax!

By Colt45• 25 Nov 2010 11:05
Colt45

It's not about having guts, it's not only me, everyone does it... it's just a norm that when you see a loved one arriving or departing, you display affection, be it public or private. It's just that you have to remember not to get carried away here.

The cops at the airport understand this and that is why they turn a blind eye towards it.

By soniya• 25 Nov 2010 11:02
soniya

Well to hold your spouse's hand in full public glare is not an offense here..

I would say to stay away from kissing or cuddling when out in public place..

By soniya• 25 Nov 2010 10:58
soniya

Colt, kudos to your guts..:))

By anonymous• 25 Nov 2010 10:49
anonymous

Colt's right Mrvm, hug away at the airport, even sneak a quick kiss. The airport is a little more lenient. ;)

By Colt45• 25 Nov 2010 09:29
Colt45

it is acceptable to hug your husband when you see him at the airport, or even on departure. I do that with family right in front of the cops outside departure immigration and they don't make an issue of it.

You can even give him a goodbye/ welcome back kiss on the cheeks, but you can't go on mooching like you would in the west. ;-)

By mrvm• 25 Nov 2010 09:24
mrvm

thank you Pilgrim, finally a more reasoned response. since i am not in Doha yet I just wanted to get an idea of what's ok. for example. is it ok to hug my husband when i see him at the airport? it's a natural reaction to greet this way all over the world at airports, so just wanting to make sure.

@ qatarigirlzdontflirt, if being articulate makes someone a cripple, i don't know what that makes you

By anonymous• 25 Nov 2010 08:17
Rating: 4/5
anonymous

Holding hands or putting your hand through you spouses arm is perfectly acceptable. Although to be honest its taken some time for my husband and I to feel comfortable doing that since we still have a bit of a "we're still just dating mentality"

Feel free to put your arm around your spouse, but probably not for a prolonged period, ditto with cuddling.

I wouldn't try kissing in anyway.

By anonymous• 25 Nov 2010 07:49
Rating: 3/5
anonymous

@ mrvm,someone seems to be having a bad day mate,ignorance is bliss i say!...as WK pointed out,it's a grey area,depends on the situation which is usually easily assesed in my opinion...i.e,if you're @ a private party or a bar etc. with no locals/conservative Arabs around,should be fine...if not,refrain from anything beyond holding hands...when in Rome & all that jazz...

By anonymous• 25 Nov 2010 01:14
anonymous

mrvm

from the way you type sounds like your trying to present yourself as the next steve hawkins or w/e that cripples name is

By mrvm• 24 Nov 2010 09:24
mrvm

@qatarigirlzdontflirt, please spare us the diatribe. i was simply asking about more 'subtle forms of affection'... I have no intention of offending.

And for the record, spouse does imply married, which is true in my case. I'm also not Arab anything, so not sure what your Arab woman commentary was all about.

By anonymous• 24 Nov 2010 07:59
anonymous

@ qatarigirlzdontflirt, eh?...the OP did end his/her post with "(i.e your spouse)" so it's pretty clear he/she already has a "somebody to express it with" right?! :)...i'm not bashing either,just clarifying...peace!...

By perfectStranger• 24 Nov 2010 02:52
perfectStranger

Clap...

By one_shot• 24 Nov 2010 02:11
one_shot

too much is lesser than three much " i think"

By anonymous• 24 Nov 2010 01:32
anonymous

im sure you ment Rubbed in the wrong way ?

By eby1975• 24 Nov 2010 01:30
eby1975

somebody is heated up...looks like he has been rubbed

By anonymous• 24 Nov 2010 01:25
anonymous

My friend i think the problem isn’t going to be showing the affection, it’s going to be finding that somebody to express it with . . . not to bash your post but I’d say in the next 20 minutes Somebody "maybe" of Arab decent is gona be like

WHY YOU WANT SHOW EFFECT ARAB WOMAN!

WHY YOU COME QATAR

ARAB WOMAN YOUR BOSS YOU NOT WHY RESPECT ?

Yada Yada Yada......

And then Some Teen Brit comes out of nowhere trying to contradict what you said into something else which will leave you scratching your head for about 10 minutes wondering how retarded he actually is ...

oh and i forgot about the feminist human rights lady who works as a f & B manager in some shitty hotel schooling you on how you should and shouldn’t act in Qatar while she’s a half Jew to begin with.

Sigh.

GL Homie

To answer your question honestly I’d say stay away from public affection in a country where you could get arrested for scratching your balls in public.

Happy Hunting !

By Keidoupe• 24 Nov 2010 00:23
Keidoupe

i dont think i see the ones u mentioned in qatar that often :/

By britexpat• 24 Nov 2010 00:20
britexpat

Here's an idea.

take a little time to look around and observe the culture / society around you. that should give you an idea of what is acceptable.

By eliashamzo• 24 Nov 2010 00:10
eliashamzo

regarding your question , all of what you mentioned is not preferable to be showed in public .

By anonymous• 24 Nov 2010 00:10
Rating: 5/5
anonymous

It's a grey area, nothing clear cut.. Just use your best judgement and try not to offend anyone..

At the recent Argentina- Brazil football game, the couple sitting in next line to us were all over each other and nobody was bothered..

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