Dear Brity: It is nature, all women have needs, doesn't have to be always money, but we all know that they expect their needs to be satisfied by us men. But if a man cannot fulfill those needs or be useful then why would the women go for these men. This goes back to evolution and Darwin: survival of the fittest. Personally I don't believe in equality, even though I wish it to happen someday. The concept and idea is all politically motivated and organizations use it as a sham to keep everyone in line. Just a piece of mind that equality exist or relevant policies are in place are to keep everyone in their place and not panic or worry about. In reality we all know that equality doesn't exist... or our world will be a divine Utopia with the needs and wants. So going back, I think all men need to be able to provide the basic needs for their women and family. If not, they are useless. harsh to say it again, in this tough world we men, all need to be useful, putting equality aside.