Why would a women marry a man who can't provide. A men should be able to provide at least the basic needs for women to consider them as their suitors. What use is a man too anyone, if he can't do anything to help himself or other. I know such man, and I know they married their girlfriends in false pretense and ended up with divorce, misery and no money. Some of them are in worse situation, because they have kids and now they are looking to hand out from family. So...don't be a useless man, contribute to the society and live up to the expectations of your family and for your future wife and kids.