Thans for the info guys, here is what i am looking at

Exchange Rate 1 USD

School Fees Per year 45000

Per Month in QAR
Rent -12000
Gas - 250
water - 300
Power - 300

Mobile - 225
Mobile 2 - 225
Internet - 300

Auto Loan - 3000
Auto Gas - 300

# of Kids 4
Kids Schools - 15000

House Maid - 2000
Grocery/Lifestyle - 3000

Total QAR 36,904.00

i think 36k is alot to task, maybe we can home school the kids. I knwo the company will pay for 3 of the kids yearly fees, do they pay it directly to school or we have to pay those.

Also i am contemplating wrapping up here in the usa, but dont want to throw away my household stuff, the company i might work for wont give me moving help so i might have to pay for moving this stuff from usa to qatar, it is not new stuff but furniture, computer, kids toys and all sorta household stuff, not sure how much it costs to ship containers from USA to Doha but i am not sure if it is worth it to do that. I like the idea that if i did that then atleast i will have my own stuff ready to go once i land in doha and wont have to shop and stuff.

this is becoming a harder decision than i thought.