"They are all not perverts but all have intentions other than just friendship"...obviously either you were an easy pick from the way you posted or you did hit on the wrong group. You get the people as you yourself are and that is a universal law. And smart girl I know who you are pointing to from the very first time you responded so keep your smartness with you, you aren't smarter and that is why so many could attempt to get into your pants. There are so many other women members here whom I have met, who are smart and have no such complaints either being ambushed online or on groups. Behave properly and you will be handled the same, behave cheap and that is what you will get.