NM
My apology for trolling the post. Can not think of better way to nail this point to the local community without condemn. Long back I remember you hit on this behaviour. Normally I will distance from the wife when it happens in public. She picks the hint on my frown but not the others or I excuse myself from the group to smoke outside when decibel reaches inappropriate level. The irony must be clear and the stand still holds, I disagree.