How would you know when you haven't even asked her...to make it official? I mean you and her to be in a relationship?

Once you know...THEN...you can think of what to do next. You're not going to marry her right away, are you? I don't think so.

Metaphorically speaking, you're thinking how to take care of the chicks (little chickens) and keeping the coop steady at the same time...when you haven't got the chicken who will lay the eggs?

Any whooooo...good luck. :))