Two things...

1. the school allowance is meager and you'll be spending another 20k-25k per child per year on school fees (assuming you are British and want to keep your kids within the UK curriculum?)

2. "suitable housing" is very vague. Not sure who your employer is, but I would recommend getting this defined better. You don't want to end up in a shoe box size apartment with 3 kids.

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